Title is confusing I know, let me explain. Say for example a muslim sister at my campus comes up to me and tells me she finds me good-looking and she’d like to get to know me. This isn’t the way a muslim should get in contact with someone they would like to potentially marry. Some would even say it’s haram.
Now my question is should I just say no to her and not try and start a relationship that was founded on ‘haram’ actions, or is it fine for me to continue and at the same time recognize it shouldn’t have happened in that way? It doesn’t have to be about this specific situation, anything similar.